Just keen thinking about licking a woman

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I want to go down on her... Really taking my time. Circling my tongue around her clit. Parting her lips and running my tongue between them. I really want to bury myself between her legs and see and feel her cum. God I want that so much. I'd wait till she was really wet and panting before gently moving a finger inside, curling it up and gently stroking her g spot. Pull her hands to my head so she can run them through my hair as I just make her cum...

Sorry a very simple fantasy really. But that simple thought gets me turned on more than any thought of a guy does right now. I'm 46. I guess it's the HRT making me horny lol.

But then I've been attracted to women all my life and denied it. I guess now I'm finally admitting it I'm like a horny virginal teenager.
So confused.
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Hi! Welcome to the new Shy's. Lol! Yeah, I want to do all of this as well. Im in a ldr with another woman, been for 2 years now. My husband knows and is accepting of it. We have a very strong emotional bond and that makes me want her even much more. Sigh....i have the same fantasy.
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Marie, you’re in the UK I see. If so I can make suggestions that could help. I’ll return soon.
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Not meeting me. I’m in New Zealand.

My suggestion is to Google killing kittens.
It’s a UK business and it has website, and dating app. Meetings of people who include bi females at parties at bars or clubs for meetings where the bi females might enjoy intimacy. There’s probably also a swinger contingent at some parties, So you would probably need to see which parties did not have men and if this was a concern. Probably not a concern for me if men are there because I’m interested in men as well as females, I’m sort of openly bisexual in some quarters.

I joined for a few months or something but I deleted the app because there was nothing for my country in the app. But if I was in the UK I probably could’ve kept my membership. Here’s a piece that was from television about the business. It even got funding from the taxpayer and apparently it’s quite well-known:

PS it looks like it’s from before the Phillip Schofield scandal that’s why he’s on the TV too

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I edited the above a couple of times because I made a lot of typos and needed to add some text
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Thanks for that but I'm not sure that I'd act out that fantasy with a stranger. Especially at a swingers type event. I work out but the reality is I'm 46 and a size 14. Everything is a bit squishier than what it was. The idea of putting myself that much out there is more terrifying than erotic. No it was more in the context of at least trying that out sometime. I guess I'd totally thought through how though lol...

It was talking with my sexting (male) friend about giving cunnilingus and how much I'd want to do it that finally convinced me I am bi.
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MarieGreen wrote: Fri Jul 21, 2023 7:04 am Thanks for that but I'm not sure that I'd act out that fantasy with a stranger. Especially at a swingers type event. I work out but the reality is I'm 46 and a size 14. Everything is a bit squishier than what it was. The idea of putting myself that much out there is more terrifying than erotic. No it was more in the context of at least trying that out sometime. I guess I'd totally thought through how though lol...

It was talking with my sexting (male) friend about giving cunnilingus and how much I'd want to do it that finally convinced me I am bi.
Hire a girl. Here’s a Japanese woman who hires men. Females can be hired as well.


I have hired some women. It’s permitted here. Like I said I’m open, but only in some quarters. There may not be any other alternative.

Apart from that it’s pretty redundant and even though I like it that I can take it or leave it and prefer men in the Longrun. I don’t really care what anyone thinks. There’s no morality police here it’s not Iran
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Sorry if it seemed like I was moralising. Not at all. More just lacking self confidence.
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Well I wondered what the point was of making a post about wanting to be with bisexual (or similar women) sexually then rejecting obvious ideas like meeting bi women who may be open to sexual relationships with other women.
I suggested a uk business who run a dating app, as well as … yes swingers parties.
The fact is if one is looking for very sex focused liaisons as described originally and one is a bisexual or pansexual woman who is either married to or primarily dating men … sex positive bisexual women also partnered with men are the obvious female sexual companions.
These women are usually found on apps, or swingers clubs etc.

If one has a target market of single lesbians or bisexual women looking for an exclusive, committed relationship with a female, one is barking up the wrong tree - as these women are basically not interested in bisexual women with a male partner.

Kink, swingers, or ethical non-monogamy focused women in general are the way to go.

As far as thinking being size 14 or over is a cancel, that’s a fallacy. I’ve been into a swingers club and while I didn’t get involved with anyone apart from my boyfriend, I wasn’t the thinnest or even the biggest woman by any means.
There were older and bigger women and men than me for sure. Also younger or smaller, different cultural backgrounds etc.

My weight has increased for example recently / I was 12-14 in United Kingdom/commonwealth/nz-aus sizing. I’m now size 16 due to not exercising much during lockdowns etc.

I’m now regularly back at the gym several times a week lifting weights with a personal trainer and doing cardio and at home aerobics too, as well as walking.
It might take a while to lose the extra few kg I gained.
But being size 14/16 or being in one’s 40s (as I am) is no barrier to meeting bisexual women, be they swingers or otherwise.

And yes, I have met some bisexual women who were in the field of consensual, legally decriminalised, non-trafficked sex work - I live in New Zealand, it’s a legitimate field here.
Sex workers like women who work in stripping etc are probably often sex positive, open minded, bi or pan etc too.

You don’t have to meet them at their workplaces, they’re every day people too. But I did meet them at the workplace, that’s factual too - but not mandatory.
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PS I’m sorry if this post sounded harsh. It probably was. I should back off a bit because other people don’t have the same experience as I do. And I’m trying to help in someway I guess even if it’s misguided. I hopefully have some information that someone might want to know about! LOL
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