Shybi 3.0

I have not done this. I don't own any strap-on, or been the receiver or user for any gender.

I saw it on some reddit lesbian forum that a woman got a strap-on and wanted to use it on another woman.

My thoughts immediately made me think of men and pegging -no thoughts of any woman-woman use at all. So either I am way more into men than women (this would be true.) Or I have fantasies if dominating men with strap-ons. (I haven't really thought much of this so much until now.)

I don't have any experience of anything like this and may not ever!

Have you? Would you?

When I made this post - I’d also said as much to a man I’d used to date! I guess I was in a weird mood. There’s likely no way a vanilla like me would ever do this to any guy. And I’m interested in men (and women).

And possibly some of you too - you possibly may have no interest in men, I often thought it odd on the old bi site there were a few people so down on involvement with males. There was often no mention of genders other than male or female… it was a bi site too.

I’m open to being with any gender to tell the truth!

I am a strap enjoyer (giving or receiving) with women. I’ve never pegged a man but I’d very much like to.

Orla wrote: ↑Sat Jul 15, 2023 9:31 pm I am a strap enjoyer (giving or receiving) with women. I’ve never pegged a man but I’d very much like to.

oh brilliant

I felt a bit ashamed when I wrote my post after I sent an identical email to my ex-boyfriend, I am not sure if I was trying to test the waters or wanted some kind of male to bounce the idea off. He's a dominant male, but rejected me for being a very vanilla woman too.

At least there is another woman I know of now, who may have similar thoughts. Thank you

obviously I have some kind of hidden traumas from my past male partners and I am working to try and move on with a different man (or other men in future, if that does not work out!) now.

I would love to do it to DH but there is no chance in hell he would let me. I’m lucky to even get a finger back there sometimes.

I have a recurring fantasy of being with two bi men and pegging is one of the scenarios that often comes to mind, among other things

This is an interesting question with lots of layers to unpack for me. But long story short - it isn't something I have an active desire to do, but not a hard no either, and I'd be open to trying it if my partner wanted.

Honestly, I think I'd like to watch a bisexual woman peg her male partner.
That would be so cool.
That for me would be better than being the woman doing the pegging and I have a bit of voyeur thing going on, but no experience in that type of sex with men.
Why should be a bisexual woman? Well, if I am getting to the stage of watching a woman with her partner, maybe I am interested in being involved with her on some intimate level, therefore it would be great if she was a bi or pan, flexible, fluid woman etc etc with an interest in other women, rather than a straight woman, cos she'd have no interest in me if she was straight.

Strap-ons eh? Some fascinating comments so far. These are my own thoughts, some of which are based on my personal experience.

Not that long ago I did some webcamming, which if I'm not mistaken, I kind of mentioned in passing when responding to another thread.

90% of the time it was solo. It worked out very well for me, financially. By chance, I met a lass who was also a webcam model and we decided to perform together as a couple.

We did a fortnight together and yeah it was great fun. The vast majority of our audiences were men, as you'd expect. A lot requested we use a strap-on, so sure enough, we did on 3 occasions. We took turns, each of us being a giver and a receiver.

Honestly? it felt good to receive, but not as good as a penis and to give, it felt awkward and the bloody harness isn't great. The only difference is that a strap-on lasts longer and doesn't go limp after 1 to 10 minutes haha.

The point though was that this lass and I did it for the enjoyment of men. Purely that. No more.
When I have sex with a girl, I never use one and have no interest in one. The whole concept reminds me of a substitute to a penis and with a girl, I don't want that.
If I go into a Chinese restaurant, I don't want pizza. I love pizza, but I'll save it for a pizzeria.

Anyway I'm waffling. To address the headline of this thread.....no I absolutely wouldn't be using one on a male.

@Mintcake

interesting I have wondered what it would be like with a woman....

And yeah, I have been with women. Anything even resembling a dick isn't necessary, I think (for me). I don't mean a vibrator, but basically something used for penetration - in that form.
I do enjoy being with a man in intercourse. I wonder it would be like with a woman with a strap, I mean, would I imagine she was a male if she's in the giver position?
I am bisexual, but if I switch to that type of thinking (and it's very odd thinking), it's weird and probably signifies I do enjoy being with men and maybe receiving a strap-on may be something... I do not have to use with a woman.