Lasting longer would be nice!

[lousund]

A friend at work was telling me a joke. From a woman's perspective, what's the difference between sex with a man and sex with a woman?
About an hour lol.

They say there is often some truth in a joke. I do like him lasting more than 60 seconds. Ok some last a lot longer, but generally? A couple of minutes perhaps? So on that basis, so much more fulfilling with a woman.

Thoughts? Are you the lucky one where your partner/past partners have lasted a decent amount of time? Or maybe even too long and you just want him to get it over with? Oh and what about foreplay? Do you get pissed off when he doesn't bother with that at all and goes straight in?

[VirgoGirl]

He lasts long enough for me....sometimes a bit too long lol. But generally i'm satisfied. I guess it's just different in the sense of with a woman it's more intense, she's more attentive to my needs and yeah it does last longer cause obviously there's more touching and foreplay.

[moonbynight]

I've never had a partner I felt didn't last long enough. I had to tell one to please finish faster - he went on and on to the point where it was boring and a bit painful. Turned out he'd been intentionally holding off out of a perception that this was a good thing and was happy with finishing faster.

It seems to me that the idea of "lasting long enough" is based in a phallocentric view of sex, where penis in vagina is the only true sex, and sex is over once the man orgasms. Reality is that many women do not orgasm from penetration, or do so only in certain positions or circumstances, so pounding away forever is never actually going to get anywhere. Finishing the penis part of it and moving on to some other activity that actually results in orgasm for the woman seems more appropriate to me for women who don't orgasm from penetration.

I mean, there are extremes. Not coming within the first 30 seconds is probably better. But a few minutes isn't necessarily worse than a few hours, as long as everyone's needs get met.

[MarieGreen]

My male partner lasts for fucking ever. Loses his erection and regains it. Can't cum through penetrative sex whereas I can. Frustrated the hell out of me.

[sydney]

With men the quicker the better because penetrative sex is nice but that's about it and if it goes for too long it just gets irritating. With women I find the foreplay and touching before getting to the main event last longer and is more gentle (my preference only)'

[MarieGreen]

A friend at work was telling me a joke. From a woman's perspective, what's the difference between sex with a man and sex with a woman?
About an hour lol.

They say there is often some truth in a joke. I do like him lasting more than 60 seconds. Ok some last a lot longer, but generally? A couple of minutes perhaps? So on that basis, so much more fulfilling with a woman.

Thoughts? Are you the lucky one where your partner/past partners have lasted a decent amount of time? Or maybe even too long and you just want him to get it over with? Oh and what about foreplay? Do you get pissed off when he doesn't bother with that at all and goes straight in?

Too long. My partner struggles to stay hard and doesn't always cum at all. He's unselfish and will bring me to orgasm, often many many times. And after a good few years of my advising he does a good job. But it's so frustrating he takes so long. I'd like to make him happy too but just like a bloke he refuses to see a doctor about it. And I can be giving head, hand jobs etc for more than half an hour for it not always to work.

It's awful to say but it prevents me having sex more with him because it gets boring. I know my 10 mins of amazing and quick orgasms will need some payback.

So length of time isn't everything.

[MarieGreen]

My male partner lasts for fucking ever. Loses his erection and regains it. Can't cum through penetrative sex whereas I can. Frustrated the hell out of me.

Just reread and thought "ooh me too girl!" Then realised it was me.

[VirgoGirl]

My male partner lasts for fucking ever. Loses his erection and regains it. Can't cum through penetrative sex whereas I can. Frustrated the hell out of me.

Just reread and thought "ooh me too girl!" Then realised it was me.