As a newbie, I’ve noticed that there aren’t any topics dedicated to BDSM. Is anyone else in the lifestyle?
While I have historically been submissive, as I have embraced my bisexuality, I find myself leaning more toward being both submissive and dominant with women.
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letsbefriends1st
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Re: BDSM
I can’t say I’ve ever tried BDSM, but occasionally do like to be dominant. Sometimes being submissive and told what to do is a total turn on too—I’d be down for either I suppose 
But maybe just not into as much of it as others may be.
But maybe just not into as much of it as others may be.-
HarleyMama
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Re: BDSM
I love being submissive with my boyfriend but dominant when I was with a woman. The excitement of being tied up and knowing that I have no control what that person does to my body is such a turn on!!
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MarieGreen
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I'm realising that there are different sides to me depending on where I am with the DID. But I've been both dominant and submissive. But even when submissive there is a recognition I have that the real power is in submission.
So confused.
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VirgoGirl
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Ok yeah, i have to agree that being told what to do is very hot!letsbefriends1st wrote: Mon Dec 18, 2023 7:25 pm I can’t say I’ve ever tried BDSM, but occasionally do like to be dominant. Sometimes being submissive and told what to do is a total turn on too—I’d be down for either I suppose
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katinthewoods
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I feel this 100%. This, with the addition of a high stress job, is what led me into the lifestyle as a sub years ago. It was immensely therapeutic!Orla wrote: Fri Dec 22, 2023 2:55 pm I have a strong need to be in control in most aspects of my life, so while I’m officially a switch, there is something so restful about relinquishing control for a while.