So I joined a dating site

[MarieGreen]

Really clear about it. Penpals only. I'm in a relationship and finding my way with this. Joined Pinkcupid, looking OK, but one message only then only monthly payment. I'm just not ready for that yet especially as I don't yet know what I want. Any suggestions on anywhere I could start? All I want to do is DM with a few women. See how it feels. I have no idea if that makes sense?

[CraftyNaBi27]

It makes sense. At least I think I understand it. Before you pay, you want to ensure this is what you want. I see nothing wrong with DMing women. I want to do that myself, but I haven't found an app where that allows me. This is my first time seeing Pinkcupid. I wish you the best of luck.

[RedRosa]

I joined Pinkcupid last year. I got two types of responses, one from women my age who wanted to settle down and one from younger women with a granny fetish. I answered the latter and had dates for four women, with the last becoming an occasional fuck buddy. Then I met a woman at a poetry reading and we hit it off. But she lives upstate and I've only seen her face to face three times, meeting in bed once. We text each other and share poetry and photos. I'd really like to be in a relationship with her but it's not gonna happen, alas.

[CraftyNaBi27]

I joined Pinkcupid last year. I got two types of responses, one from women my age who wanted to settle down and one from younger women with a granny fetish. I answered the latter and had dates for four women, with the last becoming an occasional fuck buddy. Then I met a woman at a poetry reading and we hit it off. But she lives upstate and I've only seen her face to face three times, meeting in bed once. We text each other and share poetry and photos. I'd really like to be in a relationship with her but it's not gonna happen, alas.

Awww, that sounds frustrating as hell! I do hope you find a woman who will give you that relationship you're looking for.

[HarleyMama]

I did the same thing as I just wanted to chat with women and see how I felt. I posted a few non face pics and then messages came in but I had to pay to read them. Not willing to do that. It’s so frustrating!