Just keen thinking about licking a woman

[VirgoGirl]

I want to go down on her... Really taking my time. Circling my tongue around her clit. Parting her lips and running my tongue between them. I really want to bury myself between her legs and see and feel her cum. God I want that so much. I'd wait till she was really wet and panting before gently moving a finger inside, curling it up and gently stroking her g spot. Pull her hands to my head so she can run them through my hair as I just make her cum...

Sorry a very simple fantasy really. But that simple thought gets me turned on more than any thought of a guy does right now. I'm 46. I guess it's the HRT making me horny lol.

But then I've been attracted to women all my life and denied it. I guess now I'm finally admitting it I'm like a horny virginal teenager.

Thank you for sharing this fantasy with us. I get it! Just because you think these things don't mean you have to actually go out and find someone to do it with immediately. Take your time to process these feelings and who knows, maybe someday you'll meet someone that you feel comfortable with doing this with. Personally, i would not want to do it with a stranger or someone i paid as well. I need to be romantically and emotionally involved to be physically attracted to someone...its just how im wired. If there's no connection...whatever you want to call it, then i can't be intimate. It'll just feel so empty....

But that's just me.

[MarieGreen]

Thanks Virgogirl. I think you've summed it up. It's not just the physical act of pleasuring a woman that is like to do and while I'm not saying I'd need to be in a committed relationship with her either. I just would love to give pleasure to a woman I care about and it's a fantasy for me in a way it's not for men, possibly because it's something I've never done. And as fantasies go it's pretty vanilla! But giving pleasure feels like it would be such an amazing thing and such a turn on. I don't think it's something that I'd want to do with my male partner either. It would be different if it was part of a threesome. Sexy yes but in a different way. Not the slow intimacy it could be just the two of us.

[moonbynight]

I agree, don't stress the body stuff too much, especially if you're looking at dating similar age women. We're pretty much all in the same boat. We're starting into perimenopause, with the associated weight gain and other bodily changes. If we're the kids-having sort, we've probably had them by now, and our bodies show it. Even those who haven't been through those yet tend to be feeling the effects of time.

Not to say that there aren't super in-shape women in their 40s or older, or those who are judgmental. But I think most don't expect a supermodel.

[MarieGreen]

PS I’m sorry if this post sounded harsh. It probably was. I should back off a bit because other people don’t have the same experience as I do. And I’m trying to help in someway I guess even if it’s misguided. I hopefully have some information that someone might want to know about! LOL

Wow missed that earlier. Yes it was a bit harsh tbh. It's about self confidence, about where I am on my journey and about not pressuring people. I'm not comfortable with what you are and that's ok.

[delevigne-fan]

PS I’m sorry if this post sounded harsh. It probably was. I should back off a bit because other people don’t have the same experience as I do. And I’m trying to help in someway I guess even if it’s misguided. I hopefully have some information that someone might want to know about! LOL

Wow missed that earlier. Yes it was a bit harsh tbh. It's about self confidence, about where I am on my journey and about not pressuring people. I'm not comfortable with what you are and that's ok.

What do you mean "what I am"? I am not a sex worker, if that's what you mean - and even if I was, I haven't done anything illegal in this country by being with one on occasion. (And I gather in the UK, either).
Maybe read about Tilly Lawless, who is a lesbian author who sleeps with men for cash and she chose it for her own reasons.
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relat ... 683d199165
And watch these ladies too, which include Tilly:


I'd never work as one. I wouldn't want to have to deal with all those men and sometimes be forced to take them all, just because I needed money.

[MarieGreen]

I never said you were a sex worker. When I said "I'm not comfortable with what you are" I meant "I'm not comfortable with what you're comfortable with" I wasn't intending to imply anything. I'm just saying I don't want to go to sex events nor pay a sex worker. What you do is up to you.

I was raped by a man who in court also admitted seeing sex workers. I'm sure he raped them as well but there is a severe underreporting issue as sex workers fear even more they won't be believed. I have PTSD and as a result what you suggest could be triggering.

That wasn't a topic I wanted to bring up here but as you've chosen to take offence, I thought I would explain.

[VirgoGirl]

To get back to the original post and stick with the fun that im sure the original poster intended....YEAH, it's all i have been thinking about the past couple of weeks! To lick and kiss and taste and please her would be a dream come true. To make her come so hard, her beautiful legs opposite sides of my head and her hands in my hair. To listen to her sexy moans, heavy breathing....my tounge slipping inside of her....my fingers rubbing and teasing her clit. Shit....here i go again lol!

[Ripley]

I speak from experience that licking another woman is a huge turn on. The first time for me was when i was 16 and i was young and inexperienced. Im now 43 and have more experience under my belt.

Its normal to have worries about it. I prefer to shower together beforehand so we are both clean. Showering together for us is all part of it.

For me, its making my partner feel great about the whole of their body, kissing and stroking and teasing so that when you get down to the main event, the anticipation builds.

I tend to use my fingers in between parts with my tongue to mix up what happens. We have come to know what gets each other going.

She always remarks about the big grin on my face afterwards. Theres no better feeling than making her come hard. Its a pleasure and most certainly not a chore

[VirgoGirl]

I speak from experience that licking another woman is a huge turn on. The first time for me was when i was 16 and i was young and inexperienced. Im now 43 and have more experience under my belt.

Its normal to have worries about it. I prefer to shower together beforehand so we are both clean. Showering together for us is all part of it.

For me, its making my partner feel great about the whole of their body, kissing and stroking and teasing so that when you get down to the main event, the anticipation builds.

I tend to use my fingers in between parts with my tongue to mix up what happens. We have come to know what gets each other going.

She always remarks about the big grin on my face afterwards. Theres no better feeling than making her come hard. Its a pleasure and most certainly not a chore

Awesome! Thanks for sharing this with us. I especially like the showering before getting down. Omg, im sure i would have a massive grin on my face as well afterwards because pleasing her would be a huge pleasure for me too...to make her come would feel so good!