using strap-on on males

[delevigne-fan]

I have not done this. I don't own any strap-on, or been the receiver or user for any gender.

I saw it on some reddit lesbian forum that a woman got a strap-on and wanted to use it on another woman.

My thoughts immediately made me think of men and pegging -no thoughts of any woman-woman use at all. So either I am way more into men than women (this would be true.) Or I have fantasies if dominating men with strap-ons. (I haven't really thought much of this so much until now.)

I don't have any experience of anything like this and may not ever!

Have you? Would you?

[delevigne-fan]

When I made this post - I’d also said as much to a man I’d used to date! I guess I was in a weird mood. There’s likely no way a vanilla like me would ever do this to any guy. And I’m interested in men (and women).

And possibly some of you too - you possibly may have no interest in men, I often thought it odd on the old bi site there were a few people so down on involvement with males. There was often no mention of genders other than male or female… it was a bi site too.

I’m open to being with any gender to tell the truth!

[Orla]

I am a strap enjoyer (giving or receiving) with women. I’ve never pegged a man but I’d very much like to.

[delevigne-fan]

I am a strap enjoyer (giving or receiving) with women. I’ve never pegged a man but I’d very much like to.

oh brilliant

I felt a bit ashamed when I wrote my post after I sent an identical email to my ex-boyfriend, I am not sure if I was trying to test the waters or wanted some kind of male to bounce the idea off. He's a dominant male, but rejected me for being a very vanilla woman too.

At least there is another woman I know of now, who may have similar thoughts. Thank you

[delevigne-fan]

obviously I have some kind of hidden traumas from my past male partners and I am working to try and move on with a different man (or other men in future, if that does not work out!) now.

[shymona]

I would love to do it to DH but there is no chance in hell he would let me. I’m lucky to even get a finger back there sometimes.

I have a recurring fantasy of being with two bi men and pegging is one of the scenarios that often comes to mind, among other things

[moonbynight]

This is an interesting question with lots of layers to unpack for me. But long story short - it isn't something I have an active desire to do, but not a hard no either, and I'd be open to trying it if my partner wanted.

[delevigne-fan]

Honestly, I think I'd like to watch a bisexual woman peg her male partner.
That would be so cool.
That for me would be better than being the woman doing the pegging and I have a bit of voyeur thing going on, but no experience in that type of sex with men.
Why should be a bisexual woman? Well, if I am getting to the stage of watching a woman with her partner, maybe I am interested in being involved with her on some intimate level, therefore it would be great if she was a bi or pan, flexible, fluid woman etc etc with an interest in other women, rather than a straight woman, cos she'd have no interest in me if she was straight.

[Mintcake]

Strap-ons eh? Some fascinating comments so far. These are my own thoughts, some of which are based on my personal experience.

Not that long ago I did some webcamming, which if I'm not mistaken, I kind of mentioned in passing when responding to another thread.

90% of the time it was solo. It worked out very well for me, financially. By chance, I met a lass who was also a webcam model and we decided to perform together as a couple.

We did a fortnight together and yeah it was great fun. The vast majority of our audiences were men, as you'd expect. A lot requested we use a strap-on, so sure enough, we did on 3 occasions. We took turns, each of us being a giver and a receiver.

Honestly? it felt good to receive, but not as good as a penis and to give, it felt awkward and the bloody harness isn't great. The only difference is that a strap-on lasts longer and doesn't go limp after 1 to 10 minutes haha.

The point though was that this lass and I did it for the enjoyment of men. Purely that. No more.
When I have sex with a girl, I never use one and have no interest in one. The whole concept reminds me of a substitute to a penis and with a girl, I don't want that.
If I go into a Chinese restaurant, I don't want pizza. I love pizza, but I'll save it for a pizzeria.

Anyway I'm waffling. To address the headline of this thread.....no I absolutely wouldn't be using one on a male.

[delevigne-fan]

@Mintcake

interesting I have wondered what it would be like with a woman....

And yeah, I have been with women. Anything even resembling a dick isn't necessary, I think (for me). I don't mean a vibrator, but basically something used for penetration - in that form.
I do enjoy being with a man in intercourse. I wonder it would be like with a woman with a strap, I mean, would I imagine she was a male if she's in the giver position?
I am bisexual, but if I switch to that type of thinking (and it's very odd thinking), it's weird and probably signifies I do enjoy being with men and maybe receiving a strap-on may be something... I do not have to use with a woman.