What's your Last Relationship Like

[Mintcake]

This thread is super interesting. Some extremely good points made!

The title caught my eye. I can't honestly say that I have ever been in a proper realtionship. Well it depends what a 'proper' relationship is. Could it be 3 months, a year, living together or bringing him/her over to the parents' Sunday dinner? Basically at what point does dating become a relationship?

Oh I don't know. I'm still very young. I date girls and men, not at the same time, based on physical and intellectual attraction. I enjoy the adrenalin, excitement and adventures.

The problem is I tend to get bored after a short while, though I have always felt that the bigger the choice within the dating pool, the more I want to try. Of course, many will say the right person has not yet crossed my path. Hmm possibly true. Gut feeling tells me it's a long way off.

[delevigne-fan]

@Mintcake

Do you reckon you are polyamorous? I don’t reckon I am despite having all these posts about threesomes and whatever else I’ve been writing about. I’m simply bisexual and whatever I was writing about is something else that is a byproduct or something. I almost exclusively date men. At the same time I don’t want to be part of something that exploits bi women for a man’s purpose so I’m not sure what I should be doing

[delevigne-fan]

I’m happy to be with a woman if she’s into it … and interested in females!

[Mintcake]

@delevigne-fan
No I'm definitely not polyamorous in the true sense of the word.
My focus is exclusively on the one partner at that particular time.
We sound similar. Enjoy your day

[VirgoGirl]

I don't know what I am anymore lol! I like men and i like women. But now i have a man, i am happy with him and am faithful in regards to not looking for another man. But i also have a girlfriend and i am happy with her and i am not looking for another woman at all too. I am faithful to them both, both know about each other but i don't want to and never will share. My husband and girlfriend are seperate and will always remain that way. That's how i am wired. Im like a penguin...once i choose a partner its forever except it 2 partners from both genders. No way in hell there will ever be 3sums, NEVER!

[Bookworm]

Married for 13 years next Monday. Been with him 21 years (half my life). Monogamous, non jealous, so we are both open about checking girls out and even flirt, but it goes no further.

1st May? That was my wedding anniversary too. Also, similarly we were together 21 years and married 14 years. Time goes fast. Sounds like you both have a good understanding and are making things work well!

[Anon]

I currently have a girlfriend, but I had a couple of boyfriends in the past.

[NachosSupreme]

I figured rather than starting with our first, let's start with our most recent. I'm with a guy and his wife who are in their late 30's.

Would that be by any chance Erik and Moi?