Lilianna wrote: ↑Sun Apr 16, 2023 10:59 pm
I ... would love to find a partner who would convince me to try it. I'm very much submissive and this is just such a dominant thing that being persuaded to try it features in my fantasies.
Wow I've never admitted that 'out loud' before!
I think that's fine. And I suppose you'd start small and sensual. Bathing together and gently cleaning in that area is a start. Perhaps some gentle licking so you get used to the idea. But then if you did go for it, a few plugs can be a great place to start. Go small to begin with and use lots of lube.
That would be my gentle set of suggestions but I wouldn't be as gentle if we were playing, you were liking it and you were in full on sub mode
So confused.