Shybi 3.0

How many of us are cheating on our husbands? I have never, and didn't think I ever would, but I'm finding the need to be with a woman so great that I'm considering reevaluating my whole view on cheating. I want to know how common this is, or if Im out of my fucking mind thinking about cheating on my husband with women?

Im not cheating. He knows what I am and like. Ive never been with a woman physically but he knows that i want to and he'll let me. He also knows about the emotional affairs i've had and the phone sex.

But...if he did not, i would have felt the same as you.

I had an affair and so did my partner. I have to say it was about the hardest thing I have ever done. I am a very honest person and to do it went against all my morals. It worked out well for me and my partner as we are still together and we are both divorcing to be with each other.

Some may judge me for what I did and thats fine. Judge me all you want but I am happier now than I ever was in my marriage.

I wouldnt advocate having an affair even though our story is still ongoing but if its something you are already considering then ive been there and you arent alone

Thank you so much, I'm so glad to know I'm not alone in how I feel. I'm not trying to destroy my marriage, but the need to be with a woman is getting stronger and stronger. He's slowly coming around to the idea, but I feel like that's because it's all talk right now.

Also how do you define cheating? Is it actually physical contact with someone else? Does sexting count? Does thinking about another woman as he goes down on you count?

shymona wrote: Fri Jul 05, 2024 4:20 am Also how do you define cheating? Is it actually physical contact with someone else? Does sexting count? Does thinking about another woman as he goes down on you count?

Oh God, this makes me guilty because I've thought about women during sex, but hadn't considered it cheating. I guess to me cheating would be the physical act of sex, or physical intimacy.

lnzy wrote: Fri Jul 05, 2024 12:36 pm

shymona wrote: Fri Jul 05, 2024 4:20 am Also how do you define cheating? Is it actually physical contact with someone else? Does sexting count? Does thinking about another woman as he goes down on you count?

Oh God, this makes me guilty because I've thought about women during sex, but hadn't considered it cheating. I guess to me cheating would be the physical act of sex, or physical intimacy.

That’s how I would define it too. Don’t feel guilty about what the mind wants.

My partner does NOT consider sex with a girlfriend cheating, so I am free to have girl love from female friends.
on the other hand if I cheated on him with a guy, that is unacceptable for him and I would lose him.

GinTonic wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2024 8:54 am My partner does NOT consider sex with a girlfriend cheating, so I am free to have girl love from female friends.
on the other hand if I cheated on him with a guy, that is unacceptable for him and I would lose him.

Lucky you!!!

lnzy wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2024 8:00 pm

GinTonic wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2024 8:54 am My partner does NOT consider sex with a girlfriend cheating, so I am free to have girl love from female friends.
on the other hand if I cheated on him with a guy, that is unacceptable for him and I would lose him.

Lucky you!!!

I AM lucky and I dont want to lose him.