Shybi 3.0

As a newbie, I’ve noticed that there aren’t any topics dedicated to BDSM. Is anyone else in the lifestyle?

While I have historically been submissive, as I have embraced my bisexuality, I find myself leaning more toward being both submissive and dominant with women.

Although i am not so totally into BDSM, i do find that being dominant turns me on lol

I can’t say I’ve ever tried BDSM, but occasionally do like to be dominant. Sometimes being submissive and told what to do is a total turn on too—I’d be down for either I suppose But maybe just not into as much of it as others may be.

@letsbefriends1st understandable! BDSM isn’t something that I recommend practicing without complete trust on both sides!

I have experimented with BDSM. I enjoy the submissive role.

I love being submissive with my boyfriend but dominant when I was with a woman. The excitement of being tied up and knowing that I have no control what that person does to my body is such a turn on!!

I'm realising that there are different sides to me depending on where I am with the DID. But I've been both dominant and submissive. But even when submissive there is a recognition I have that the real power is in submission.

letsbefriends1st wrote: Mon Dec 18, 2023 7:25 pm I can’t say I’ve ever tried BDSM, but occasionally do like to be dominant. Sometimes being submissive and told what to do is a total turn on too—I’d be down for either I suppose But maybe just not into as much of it as others may be.

Ok yeah, i have to agree that being told what to do is very hot!

I have a strong need to be in control in most aspects of my life, so while I’m officially a switch, there is something so restful about relinquishing control for a while.

Orla wrote: Fri Dec 22, 2023 2:55 pm I have a strong need to be in control in most aspects of my life, so while I’m officially a switch, there is something so restful about relinquishing control for a while.

I feel this 100%. This, with the addition of a high stress job, is what led me into the lifestyle as a sub years ago. It was immensely therapeutic!