How to explain.
Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2024 8:05 pm
Not sure if this is the proper category in which to post this. It really could fix in to several areas, but here it where I ended up, so here goes.. I have a very dear friend, she is sweet, caring and pretty. She has been single ever since undergoing a very contentious and ugly divorce 14 years ago. Since then she has only had one short termed relationship with a man, that didn't end in a good spot. She knows I am Bi and she tells me she is straight. But every time I am telling her about my relationship with my Bi female friend, she is always very interested in everything about it.
She loves to flirt with me and we are always ending our texts and emails with "Long kisses and hugs". I am not trying to "convert her" I understand that isn't a thing that works or ends well. But several things we have talked about, including her view of dating other men, her longing for have someone to share a relationships and other topics of conversation, I can't help but think that she is at least curious about being Bi and how it feels. Again I am not trying to get her to "become Bi", she is what she is, I am not going to change that. I get that.
OK so this leads to my question, as we talk we and she has asked, I have total to explain how to relate how something as kissing another woman feels, how it is different than kissing a man. Words fail me. I get tied down end up going down rabbit holes on the sensation itself , the physiological aspect, and even the to's. My friend is curious in wanting to understand, maybe it is her trying to sort out her own feelings, maybe it is her just finding the prurient aspects of it. But how would you explain how it feels to have a passionate kiss with another woman?
She loves to flirt with me and we are always ending our texts and emails with "Long kisses and hugs". I am not trying to "convert her" I understand that isn't a thing that works or ends well. But several things we have talked about, including her view of dating other men, her longing for have someone to share a relationships and other topics of conversation, I can't help but think that she is at least curious about being Bi and how it feels. Again I am not trying to get her to "become Bi", she is what she is, I am not going to change that. I get that.
OK so this leads to my question, as we talk we and she has asked, I have total to explain how to relate how something as kissing another woman feels, how it is different than kissing a man. Words fail me. I get tied down end up going down rabbit holes on the sensation itself , the physiological aspect, and even the to's. My friend is curious in wanting to understand, maybe it is her trying to sort out her own feelings, maybe it is her just finding the prurient aspects of it. But how would you explain how it feels to have a passionate kiss with another woman?