How many of us....

[Ripley]

Unfortunately not everybody is that lucky or can cope with having “both” when it comes to it. If they could sites like this wouldnt need to exist

[MarieGreen]

I had had what I'd call a distanced affair. I've not even kissed the person, we just sexted / calls etc. But was it an affair in my head? Yes. Would my partner see it as an affair? Yes, or at least he'd be hurt if he knew.

But honestly I'm not sure it would stop me doing the same again. Mostly because I think he's done the same.
But anything physical is a line for me and something I don't think he would get over whether it was with a man or woman. I think we all know that even if a guy may not see it as cheating if it was with a woman it is.

[VirgoGirl]

I had had what I'd call a distanced affair. I've not even kissed the person, we just sexted / calls etc. But was it an affair in my head? Yes. Would my partner see it as an affair? Yes, or at least he'd be hurt if he knew.

But honestly I'm not sure it would stop me doing the same again. Mostly because I think he's done the same.
But anything physical is a line for me and something I don't think he would get over whether it was with a man or woman. I think we all know that even if a guy may not see it as cheating if it was with a woman it is.

I had the same affair.. i don't know if you can call it an affair if your partner actually knows. My husband knows. Her husband did not approve that much so we had to end it. At least i made one hell of a good friend cause we're still very much in contact but only on a platonic level. I miss the sexting and the calls. Would i do it again? Hell yeah! But this time i would do it much different. Low maintenance, less drama and no intensity.

[lnzy]

I had the same affair.. i don't know if you can call it an affair if your partner actually knows. My husband knows. Her husband did not approve that much so we had to end it. At least i made one hell of a good friend cause we're still very much in contact but only on a platonic level. I miss the sexting and the calls. Would i do it again? Hell yeah! But this time i would do it much different. Low maintenance, less drama and no intensity.
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That's how me and the girl I had been with are now, best friends platonically. I don't know what I'd do without her.

[Ripley]

Me and my partner started out like this but we met up in real life and did end up sleeping together, it couldnt then go back for me. I know some people can do it and I admire anybody who can. Once you do this, you can never be the same again.

[VirgoGirl]

Me and my partner started out like this but we met up in real life and did end up sleeping together, it couldnt then go back for me. I know some people can do it and I admire anybody who can. Once you do this, you can never be the same again.

Im happy for you and your partner. You're very lucky.
I would have loved to have hooked up with my ex girlfriend in real life but i guess the universe had other plans for me. Life is what happens while we're making other plans. I hope in the future i get to meet someone again that can maybe someday make my wish come true ... but i doubt that it will happen. Im in my 40's and i don't think that time will allow for that to happen. Maybe in my next life ... i guess.