Shybi 3.0

... crux. Also, I don't know where I'll find her because I've joined IRL communities, and not one person has taken an interest in me. It also doesn't help that my introversion prevents me from truly jumping in. Really, I'm an ambivert. I'm only introverted if I am unsure how I will be accepted. I will ...

... internal life and a busy external day to day one too. I actually see my running friends the most but am I really close to them? No. Albeit I have helped two of them when at crisis point so maybe they see me differently 🤷‍♀️ I find sometimes that in a crisis the people you thought were close aren't a ...

... relationships and can trigger reflections on our own growth and changes. Allowing ourselves to grieve the loss, while also being open to new connections, can help us navigate these feelings over time. In my culture, we drink when we grieve. I will drink for you tonight. Take it easy C. And take care.

... those things where I do the right things, like trying to go out more and talk to people, but to no avail; polyamory has a stigma. Also, it doesn't help when people can't distinguish polyamory and polygamy. One is ethical and equal (polyamory). The other is more from a religious standpoint and ...

... dissonance of wanting to be inclusive yet also not roll back hard won issues I believe are important as a feminist. The problem I have is any discussion IRL and online is shut down by either side. Nuance doesn't seem to be permitted. I thought the people here with life experiences may be able to help?

... because trans has become so polarised. And my views are not. So I'm posting here with a view of being educated and if I've got it all wrong, please help me? So, 95% of trans asks as I understand them, I'm down with. I'm happy to refer to anyone with the pronouns they prefer. I think that's just being ...

I used to with a guy but always wanted to with a girl.

Stopped it though because it became too intense and he became a bit obsessive. But it did help me get turned on which helped sex with my partner. He'd be appalled to know though. But I would love even to message a woman.

Was a mod on other forum so happy to help xx

I finish in May. Can't wait to be honest. I also have PTSD and I think I'm getting at peace with it always being there. EMDR helped loads but I think for years I was searching for a cure. Perhaps there isn't one. But also perhaps that's ok? Perhaps it's just this condition I will need help with from ...

I'm quite happy to help if you need it. I may need a little coaching on how to moderate some things like reporting and stopping spam but I'm up for the task now if you need me.